How to Ask Your Boss for Regular Check-ins - The Muse

How to Ask Your Boss for Regular Check-ins - The MuseHow to Ask Your Boss for Regular Check-insSo, youre feeling really disconnected from your boss. You like them, but you never seem to be on the same page. Theyre always assigning you new projects but never giving you feedback, or theyre in so many meetings that you rarely see them.This is why having regular one-on-ones with your boss is so important- it helps you address concerns in the moment, get your questions answered, and build a rapport with your boss that makes your working relationship more cohesive, productive, and honest.Of course, this isnt always the case at some companies. Maybe its elend their policy, or your manager oversees so many people it would be hard for them to meet with everyone.That said, it never hurts to ask So, what exactly can you say to convince them to set aside some time for you? Your email could look something like thisHi Managers Name,I really appreciated meeting with you about discussion you met abo ut recently. It welches incredibly helpful in what you got out of the meeting.As a result, I was wondering if we could schedule regular check-ins together? Even if its just for 10-15 minutes a week, Id love to be able to bounce ideas off you and keep you updated on what Im working on, as well as give you an opportunity to give me any constructive feedback you might have on my work.Im happy to work around your schedule, as well as make it a biweekly or monthly meeting instead.Please let me know if this might be possible and what works best for you. Thank youYour Name Or, you can bring it up when you have some time alone togetherIve noticed that when we meet together in person to discuss topic Im more confident in my approach. So, I was wondering if you might consider having regular one-on-ones together? I imagine we wont have urgent stuff to talk about every week, but Id love to have some time for just us two to go over what you expect of me and how I can better work with you.As you might notice, the key is to emphasize why its beneficial for them- because itll help you be a better employee to manage, and help them streamline the work they give you. Along those same lines, its just as important to give them options and say youre open to adjusting the schedule and agenda once you both get into the swing of things. Maybe a weekly meeting feels excessive and you run out of things to talk about, or maybe you agree to send status updates in advance so the time can be spent discussing bigger topics.Regardless of what you decide upon, know that setting up this meeting is truly managing up 101. You not only make your life easier, but by being so proactive you make yourself look pretty damn good in your managers eyes.